Reactive abuse is a misunderstood topic. It leaves victims questioning their role in what happened and can hurt self perception. Lana’s lyrics address this topic in a way that is hard for people who haven’t been in this situation to comprehend right away. Men should work towards making abuse abnormal and holding other men accountable when they act in a way that makes others upset and stop equating self defense as more abusive than the initial abuse. … More Lana Del Rey’s complex and misunderstood approach to discussing abuse through her lyrics